He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. Obsessive, perhaps a bit and with your planets in the 8th I am sure it's not one way:). It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. Hi, Elsa!! The 12th house rules things. Where their intention was not to help but to hurt. It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. I dont think it was his fault he told me he was going through a lot and I know he was but he asked me be friends which I thought was friend zoning me but he has aquarius descendant and he told me to watch this movie afyer he asked to be fruends where the opening line was friends cant be friends and have sex and he said he wasnt done having sex. I recent discover my crush has his Mars in my 12th conjunct my Ascendant. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? HI, ELSA!! You are using an out of date browser. His mars is in my 12th house. Fatherly type things like that. I can not understand entirely the situation just based on those aspects there is a lot to Astrology I would need to see all the charts in order to properly comment any further. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. My Venus conjunct his north node in 12 Pisces , and his Venus conjunct my vertex on desc ..From my part, I felt the karmic connexion.I was sure I need to do something with him, teach him something, Learn something from him..and I felt the sexual attraction also ( we have Sun/Pluto in 8 Scorpio) but,guess what? He got married, told me so and yet said that nothing will change. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. GOD-awful!! I just listen and really wish to support him.On the other hand, I don't even have to speak, he just knows what to say to make me feel better. I remember I was passing by a tall guy, and in a quick thaught, I thaught: this one looks very handsome. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had. I still dont know WHY that occurred . You will not regret it. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Hes cuddly and affectionate so that makes up for it. Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. No he is the Venus in Cancer. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. Just cant get past my Gemini obsessions, I guess. Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. I'm sorry it didn't end as you wanted, Douxie. It is because mars is a harsher planet? He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. I have something of a business relationship with someone. Weekend Love Forecast Leo Moon Mood With Some Dramatic STYLE, Full Moon in Virgo: March 7, 2023 Mutable T-Square Distractions, Sign up to be notified when the blog updates. Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! No WONDER I cant get it on for long with my Gemini partners . Sometimes in teh beginng this house can be overwhelming for some becasue it's like you can see into each others soul. Lesson learned: let the men pick ME instead of the other way around. Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. Their is so much fear between us. Topic: Venus in 12th house Synastry: KarkaQueen Knowflake . The first thing to . I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). Whats the deal? such beautiful love, they put it behind the scene. When I think about it, it makes me sad we aren't together. I cared abt him so much but I read that the mars person is the antagonist. after 2/3 months later i came to know that he has girlfriend somewhere in another country. Who knows! His response have a huge impact upon me. If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. thus I didnt want to be like him. I am the 12th house person. Hi, Heather. It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. Uck. ouch ouch! We are from different countries. Will you tell me what this mean in synastry? One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. HOWEVER, with that new Gemini in me birthing, I also recognized very deep and troubling things within HIM that were NOT in me (thank the LORD!! The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. This has been a dormant thread for some time but I couldn't help but post in my 2-bits on a relationship with 12th Venus. ( also his merc, pluto and uranus are in my 12th). I couldn't forget him until now. I have also experienced it as not wanting anyone to know about the relationship or not knowing where you stand. So Im confused about being confused lol Im dating someone all of our planets are 12th house but my natal chart is 12th house filled already.. everyone in his family knows about me and everyone in my family knows about him they know were also expecting a baby and so does social media lol .. For one odd reason I never completely believed him. I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. How do you think it would play out his Mars in 12th conjunct my Ascendant???. Very confusing . Such as unconditonal love, romance, spirituality, and discovering each others gifts and talents and putting them to use. even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. I resonate with the guy you wrote about in your article. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. Im stuck. Those this mean that he's thinking about me a lot too? On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. Positive aspects and conjunctions between Venus' show that the two people view love in a very similar way. So, you can imagine what kind of connection this still is. You have long-lasting and intense affection for this individual. I think what really happens is too much is shared to quickly, many secrets, and hidden parts of oneself and why things often get complicated. few months later he married her. My Mars,North node and Pluto(in my DC) conjunct his Uranus and Saturn in the 1st house. I could feel something so deep. so i point it out, and im more aware. My Jupiter falls into this man, I no longer with but had a deep connection. I really like the Leo energy. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! One is Taurus and the other is Libra. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. and weirdly 12th house does later show the othher person to live in those shoes. Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. hello, does anyone by any chance have any experience with venus being in the 12th house within synastry? Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. They may feel a strong sense of familiarity or a deep emotional bond that is difficult to explain. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships. someone's venus in my 12th, feel unconditional/boundless love for him. Venus in partner's 12th house: This indicates a strong subconscious attraction which can sometimes feel confusing, because there is a lot of fog around emotions. Otherwise we kind of don't touch. ------------------Air woman. He enjoyed the attention and games for sure and he had a Gemini ruled 12th house. Hi,this is illuminating reading for me :)Recently one man has very special influence on me and his Sun, Mars, Moon and Mercury (although Mercury is very close to my Asc) fall in my 12th house.He just gets me like no one does, or ever did.